Boy Jake

Master, when He collared me, allowed me one possession. That is my boy Jake. As I love my Master, I love my boy. A slave boy having a boy is for some in the community very hard to take. I mean no offense. All of my time in the community, I have been a switch. A switch is a person that at different times is a Dominant or Top and at other times a submissive or bottom. For 20 years, I have been exercising my dominant tendencies. Master allows me at His pleasure to dominate others. The only free hand I have is in regard to Jake. Master allows me to be his Master and to continue to do the things that brought Jake into my service.
Jake is 48 years old and lives in Cincinnati, OH. Those readers who are observant will notice that I did not say he is a gay man. Jake identifies as a straight man who is married with two grown children. What I can say is that Jake does for me sexually exactly what I do for Master in every way. As long as the Master is pleased, the boy is pleased.
Jake is new to the leather community. His gateway kink is spanking just like his Master's and his Master's Master's. It is so much fun introducing Jake to new things in the leather community. He says, at least ten times a day, “Sir, WOW, sir.” He recently attended the Folsom Street Fair With Master and I and friends. Taking him into Mr. S Leathers in San Francisco was like taking a 5 year old into a candy store. He spent most of his time wide-eyed and in shock. Of course, I had to pick a few things up for him while I was there; that is a conversation for another blog.

Because of Jake's specific living conditions, a chain collar is not appropriate. I asked a friend of mine to draw a concept tattoo for me. When I next see Jake, he will be tattooed. Although it is definitely within my rights as his Master to tattoo him, I have shown him the tattoo and asked him to prepare his wife for it. He has done a good job at it.

I have told you that I feel the most important words a boy can say to his Master are, “Sir, as You desire sir.” I believe some of the most powerful words a Master can say to a boy is “ I am proud of you son (boy, pup etc.).” I have to say this and I mean it with my whole heart: Jake, I am so proud of you boy.

Master

In order for everyone to understand fully what I and others are talking about, I have decided to define some terms that might be misunderstood. These definitions are the way that I use these words. I am only an expert in my own relationship. I do not pretend to be an authority on this or any other subject. Many people in the community will disagree with my use of these words but I have come to this understanding of the words by personal experience.

The dominant person in my relationship is Master. How do I define the word M/master? In my relationship, He is in possession of my mind, body, and soul. He determines where I go, what I eat, and what I do. For someone that is not aware of this subculture of the community, this can sound oppressive. As a slave boy, it just is. I think one of the most meaningful and profound statement that ever comes out of a slave boy's mouth is “Sir, as you desire sir.” For me that says it all. I am not first but second. Not my will but His. It also lays a great responsibility on the Master. The Master has to take care of the property that He has been intrusted with. The slave boy will do anything that the Master asks whenever the Master asks. If the Master asks something of the slave boy that will get him arrested or damage the slave boy, then the Master has failed the slave boy, the community, and himself. As long as that bond is not broken, the relationship will survive. For this slave boy, there are two outward signs of the Master's ownership; the collar of probation around the slave boy's neck and the chastity device around the junk of the boy. Master's collar is a chain of one inch links locked by a 2” by 2” lock. The chastity device is a CB-6000. I find the device makes me always aware of the Master. My longest time without release is 18 days. He is in complete control.